Atoms want to have a full outer shell of electrons to become stable. To reach this goal, they often share their outer electrons with neighboring atoms. When two atoms share a single pair of electrons, they create a bonding pair.
The negatively charged electrons sit directly in the space between the two nuclei. Both positively charged nuclei pull strongly on this shared negative cloud of electrons. This mutual attraction locks the two atoms together into a stable molecule.
In chemistry drawings called Lewis structures, a bonding pair looks like a solid line. Sometimes teachers draw it as two small dots placed directly between the atom symbols. This is very different from a lone pair of electrons.
A lone pair belongs completely to one atom and does not connect to anything else. Bonding pairs and lone pairs both push away from each other in three-dimensional space. However, bonding pairs take up less space because two nuclei pull them tight. This pushing behavior determines the final three-dimensional shape of the entire molecule.
